This Week's Insight

Seeking or Finding?

The best things in life, generally speaking, just happen – spontaneously, effortlessly, in ways that simply couldn’t be planned – like a night that you weren’t looking forward to turns out to be one of the best nights ever, or you find yourself engrossed in having fun with your children – it just happened.   Or, you’re dragged out for a night when it’s the last thing you want to do and you bump into someone who becomes that someone special.  Or, you just happen to be in the right place at the right time for a big career or business move.

We’ve all, at one point or another in our lives found ourselves in that type of situation.   And that’s the key to living effortlessly and successfully – finding yourself in those situations, rather than seeking them.   Seeking, hankering after, wanting – they all demand effort.  And the best things in life happen effortlessly. 
How do we start finding?   By being, ourselves, spontaneous , open to the possibilities of the moment – each moment.  We start finding when we let go of our desire to control and plan our lives.  We need to “just let go”!

That can only be done with a clear and present mind – and that state of mind can only be achieved through “mental exercising” – thereby ensuring that you’re mentally fit enough to grasp life’s opportunities as they’re thrown in your direction.

No leap of faith required, just a little open-mindedness.

 

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This Week's Book
This week's suggested book
The Game of Life and How to Play It - Florence Scovel-Shinn

ISBN 0 85207 325 9

Many thousands of people owe a great deal to this little book, because it has taught them that life it not a battle but a game.  The rules for the game are set out in the Old and New Testaments.  It is a game of giving and receiving.  Jesus Christ taught that ‘whatsoever a man soweth that shall he also reap’.  This simply means that whatever a man sends out in words or deeds he will eventually have returned to him.   We are also taught that visualisation plays a leading part in the game of life.  What a man imagines sooner or later externalises in his affairs.  This book shows how everyone can change their conditions and circumstances by guarding how he thinks and what he says.
Publisher's Note
Drawing on anecdotes from her own practice and the Bible, Scovel-Shinn wrote this wonderful, simple and highly practical “user’s manual” over 80 years ago.   Still a best-seller – that speaks for itself. - Willie Horton
Just how mad are so-called 'normal' people!!
Every week we take a look at a real-life story that simply proves that so-called normal people are 'all over the place'!

Ever wondered why supermarkets provide a more fast and efficient service to customers who buy less?  Isn’t that what the Express Checkout is (normally for people with less than ten items)!    And the latest – at least here in France – is some supermarkets are actually making it more difficult for people who spend more in their shops!  One supermarket has just introduced a rule at their petrol stations that if you spend more than €50, you have to provide them with proof of identity – nothing to do with bouncing cheques or anything like that – cash or a gold or platinum credit card require the same formalities.

Now, I thought I’d seen everything in just how badly supermarkets treat the people who provide them with their profits.  However, last Sunday, rushing back from Lyon, we arrived at a big local supermarket at midday – exactly midday.  “That’s alright” we thought “the place doesn’t close ‘til 12h30”.   And we were right – the place doesn’t close until 12h30.

But we, along with a large number of irate customers – one of whom only wanted to purchase five baguettes (and he could see them the other side of the large glass entrance doors) – were prevented from going in by a security guard who told us that, in order for the staff to be finished on time, the shop was now, in fact, closed.

That must be a first – a business hiring security personnel to keep the customers out!

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The Free Weekly Business & Personal Development
Issue Number: 31
Video Ezine from Gurdy.Net
July 13, 2009

 

Lead Article

Building a Winning Business Team

by Willie Horton www.gurdy.net

 

Anyone out there got the balls to do it?  I mean, has anyone got enough guts to create and lead a team of like-minded people towards the kind of exceptional business success that one only sees, if one is lucky, once in a career?

 

Willie Horton

I’ve spent the last couple of weeks talking to and working with business people – I heard a lot of anecdotal evidence which proves the old adage that power corrupts and that absolute power corrupts absolutely.   Highly placed executives falsifying new business projections whilst lining their pockets based on their lies.  More highly placed executives getting massive compensation payments – once when they were unceremoniously booted out (and rightly so) from their lofty perch – and again for when the company that had sacked them was subsequently sold (because it was in their contract).   We all know about the rogue bankers, the rogue traders the realtors who sold mortgages to people who couldn’t afford them.   We all know that, given a little power, people generally look after themselves first.   I must admit that even I (and I’ve been around for years) was taken aback by an answer from a senior company executive to the question “What are large organizations in business for?”   I expected the usual – “bottom line”, “shareholder value”, “profit”.  But the answer I got was entirely unexpected: “The really senior guys are there to make as much money for themselves in the shortest space of time possible and then get the hell out before the wheels come off!”

And, yet, once in a while, I come across a group of people who are different and, as a result, exceptionally successful without being dishonest, untrustworthy or downright jailable!  Only a couple of times throughout my career (in large organisations and as a “consultant”) have I had the experience that I’ve recently enjoyed with a Senior Management Group who not only know how the world really works – they’re actually putting it into practice.

Part of an multi-national organisation, their business is the most profitable division in over ninety countries.  They hold the number one market position in their market (with more than twice the market share of the number two) – whereas their colleagues’ normal market position is somewhere between number seven and eight.  And they only set up their business two years ago!  These guys and girls don’t just work hard – they play hard too, having the kind of fun that was squashed out of companies by bean-counters in the late 1980s. 

Why are they different from any other organization I’ve ever come across?  First of all, the CEO takes a very alternative approach to business and life.  He understands that you’re at your most effective and impressive when you’re abnormally focused in the present moment.  He knows that, if you’re worried about trying to make an impression (on his team, on customers, on the international board, on whoever) you’ll never make one!  He knows that if you don’t find a way of truly listening to your real “gut instinct”, then you’ll never take the bold decisions and the bold initiatives which have taken him to where he and his team are.   He knows that you don’t take “No” for an answer to something that makes sense – that’s why his entity has been allowed so much scope and freedom by global HQ.

He knows about the “power of now”, how to focus in the present moment and how to be achieve abnormal success effortlessly.  He practices what many of my clients call their “mental exercises” – for all the world very similar to age-old meditations – because those exercises develop a sharp discipline of mind that creates a single-mindedness and presence that creates effortless success.   But, more than that, he’s introduced his entire senior management team to the concepts and practice of how to clear one’s mind, how to discipline an otherwise wayward and distracted mind and how to fully focus in the here and now.

Some members of his team have called that decision “brave” or “courageous” – but such decisions are only brave and courageous to the so-called normal idiots who research tells us only use 1% of their mental power.   Some say that it takes “balls” to do what he did but, surely, the old (and insanely stupid) template of planning next year’s business growth based on this years’ simply doesn’t stack up when you ask the question “What could our business be doing?  What could we really achieve?  What if we start from a completely new perspective?”

Seventy years research tells us that normal people are not in control of their own minds – in other words, normal people are mad.  By definition, normal business and normal business practices must be, at the very least, totally dysfunctional (all you have to do is read the psychological research on team dysfunction).   You need to be abnormal to be abnormally successful – you need to control your mind to be in control of your destiny.
It might take “balls” to do what my friend has done – but no one would argue with the stunning and effortless nature of the results.   Is there anyone else out there who’s “brave” enough?

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