This Week's Insight
 

Today's the Day that You Make It

 

Doesn’t matter what you have to do today.   Doesn’t matter whether you like or dislike where you find yourself this Monday morning.  Doesn’t matter what tornados are whipping up a storm around you – at work, at home, on the financial front.  None of that matters – because it’s up to you how you live your life today.   You can choose to be normal and let all these external events overwhelm you – you can choose to play the victim – you can choose to look forward to a better, brighter day (which is not living in the now!) – or you can choose to take control of your mind and your life – you can choose to make today the day that you want it to be.

All that’s required is a simple change of mind – nothing could be simpler – and nothing could be more challenging.  You require commitment, discipline, perseverance – all the things that make great people great!  So you don’t want to be great?  Well, that’s your own funeral and, you know what, you might as well be dead.

Today is whatever you want it to be – you choose.  And in making a grown-up, responsible choice you might just find out that today is that day that you actually, really make it!!
LATEST NEWS AND INFO
Willie's article on EzineArticles.com "Using Your Energy to Create Success"
Take a look at Willie's latest Video on YouTube.Com "How to Become Inspired"

This Week's Personal Development Video Seminar - "No Worries!"

Worry is, perhaps, the most corrosive of useless thoughts. It gets in under your skin and bombards your mind when you least expect it. But, if you're worrying about something, greatly increase the chances of what you're worrying about coming to pass. Fill your mind with crap and a crap life is what you'll have. You need to clear your mind - ignore those useless worries. They won't go away but, if you don't give them any energy, they'll play no further part in the creation of a life over which you should choose to exercise full control... Watch the video...

The Free Weekly Business & Personal Development
Issue Number: 45
Video Ezine from Gurdy.Net
October 19, 2009
 
© Willie Horton 2009
This Week's Book
This week's suggested book
Feng Shui for the Body - Daniel Santos - ISBN 0-8356-0762-3

Don’t let the title put you off – this is an excellent book exploring the ways in which we can access our inner selves.  The author uses a fictional narrative for this purpose – I think it works really well. - Willie Horton

This breakthrough book by a master acupuncturist, healer and Doctor of Oriental Medicine applies the principles of Feng Shui, the ancient Chinese art of energy flow, to the most intimate house we inhabit – the human body.   As he learns the inners secrets of Feng Shui from three engaging teachers, Daniel Santos shows us how to use the “Four Motions” – body movement, breath, eye movement and sound – to maximise the flow of healthful life energy.  Postures, simple exercises and innovative meditations as well as a fascinating story of personal discovery offer fresh insights into the body-mind healing.
Publisher's Note
Just how mad are so-called 'normal' people!!
Every week we take a look at a real-life story that simply proves that so-called normal people are 'all over the place'!

I haven’t been to the doctor since 1993 – and that was for food poisoning!  (I think a friend of our s tried to kill me – but that’s another story).   Indeed, I can count the number of doctors visits – for all of us, Lisa and the children included – without having to resort to my toes!!   Nevertheless, from time to time, French red tape calls for a visit to our local medical centre.  A medical certificate might be required to compete in a tennis tournament, or, indeed, to confirm that you can go hill-walking as part of the school curriculum!

A visit to our doctor is an entertainment – what should take three minutes takes at least thirty – and I never leave her surgery without a laugh and a new story.   On my last visit, she asked me “What do you think of the locals?  You’re nearly seven years here now, you must have some views!”   Knowing that she is not from around these parts (otherwise she wouldn’t have asked the question in the way she did) I suggested that they were a little standoffish – a little closed.

She broke into a boisterous guffaw!  “A little closed!” she said “I’ve been here twenty three years and the Mayor still won’t shake my hand with all the others on New Year’s Eve!”    But what about one of my poor patients – a local born and bred – who recently arrived here in this surgery in tears?”  Having enquired as to whether a pill might cure his distress, he responded: “None of the locals will talk to my new wife!”

On enquiry, the doctor told me that she had discovered that her patient’s new wife was a foreigner.  “Where’s she from?” I asked, taking the bait.  “Ah” she paused for effect “She’s from St. Nicolas de Veroce!” – the next village down the valley!

 

Lead Article

Inspirational Leadership

by Willie Horton www.gurdy.net

 

It only takes one person to believe. That statement is littered across so many texts, over so many centuries - from spiritual literature, to the chronicles of the great explorers and inventors, to the field of professional sport. That belief may sometimes be described as single-mindedness, focus or vision - but they're all just words that describe a state of mind that is not only abnormal or exceptional, but one which is the defining hallmark of great and inspirational leaders.

 

I'm not simply talking about people whose names we all know - anyone can be an inspirational leader within his or her chosen field of endeavour - all it takes is an understanding and experience of the clear and present state of mind that sets inspirational leaders apart. But first, what do I mean that it only takes one person to believe?

Many years ago, I worked with a client who was the National Sales Director of a major life assurance company. As Sales Director, he directed the troops - he had no direct influence over individual sales. But he told me that he "set his mind" to the achievement of $274,390 new sales for a particular week - there was no science to the calculation of the amount, it just "felt" like the correct figure even though it was more than three times their normal week's sales.

On the Friday morning, an hour before their midday deadline, he stood in their New Business Department. At that moment, as a result of a number of policy cancelations, their new sales for the week stood at -$14,000! Staff where telling him that he was deranged - but he retorted that he didn't want any of their negative energy getting in the way of the flow of business. In his own words, he described how "It was like standing in the middle of that large room, waving a magic wand. The 'phones started ringing all over the place, business was coming in from salesmen who hadn't had a decent sale in weeks. At five minutes to midday we had clocked up $274,389.13 - 0.87c short of my goal! All I had to do was stick to my belief, it didn't matter what those around me thought."

Something very similar is spoken of by Sir Alex Ferguson on the occasion of Manchester United's European Champions League Final victory over Bayern Munich in 1999. At the end of normal time, Bayern led United 1-0 - but Ferguson was fully convinced that United were going to win - he almost couldn't understand how it wasn't happening! And, yet, two minutes later Manchester United were crowned Champions of Europe, having scored two goals in extra time.

It only takes one person to believe - and those true believers are what we call inspirational leaders. We follow such leaders not because of what they tell us - but how they tell us, how their presence inspires. And, yes, we can all be inspirational leaders - in our careers and business lives, for our families, in every aspect of our lives. All we have to do is learn how to believe and, after that, learn how to exude that leadership presence.

Believing is not wishing, hoping or wanting. Believing is seeing, feeling, hearing, smelling and tasting the success you want - as if you have it already. Some people call it "visualization" - but that's only part of the story. The science of how "belief" works confirms that our subconscious minds create our behaviour and reactions automatically. Those behaviours create our reality. In creating our behaviour, our subconscious minds use "programs" or "snapshots" that were impressed upon our subconscious minds - normally during our formative years, when we were children. So-called "normal" people do not understand that you can impress new snapshots on your subconscious mind and, as a result, change you reality.

This is done by using your five senses to immerse yourself in what it is like to achieve your desired outcome. It is most effective if you write down - using old-fashioned handwriting - what you see, feel, hear, smell and taste in that moment of achievement. The had-eye coordination required in handwriting grabs your subconscious mind's attention and, as a result, your subconscious mind is impressed with a brand new program.

After that, inspirational leaders impress those around them through their belief but, more importantly their presence. Presence, or charisma, is a phenomenon much experienced in the presence of great leaders. However, presence simply means that the inspirational leader is more present than all the so-called normal people. Research tells us that normal people are only 1% present - the greater part of their focus, their subconscious mind, being constantly focused in the past (on those old snapshots). To be an inspirational leader, all you need to do is invest more of your energy in the here and now. This is done, once again, using you five senses to engross yourself in what's going on and what you're actually doing NOW.

Recent research indicates that your ability to succeed is directly linked to your ability to pay attention. You can develop that ability, starting today, by deliberately taking time out each morning to see, feel, hear, smell and taste where you are. If you really want to fast-track the development of that ability, I would suggest meditation - it disciplines the mind to pay attention and, in doing so, will enable you be an inspiration to others, as a result of your own exceptional success.