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Issue No: 074 - March 1, 2010

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Today's Reflection

Control and Influence in Your Life

Self-Help and Self-Defence

You may well feel that you're not in control of your life. And you'd be right - none of us controls our life. But, if you're not prepared to take control of the only thing over which you can exercise total control - your own state of mind - then you won't even be able to influence the course of your life. Controlling your state of mind greatly influences the course of your life and the lives of those around you. If, on the other hand, you can't make 5 minutes in 24 hours to take a hold of those controls - then you might as well lie down and die.

And, here's the link that I refer to in this video - the US Institute of Science, Technology and Public Policy

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I recently received an email from a reader asking what advice I could offer someone whose partner ridicules their efforts at self-improvement.

More often than not, normal people don’t want us to change – those close to us might feel uncomfortable, they might fear being left behind. And as for those outside our closest inner circle, if we’re lucky enough to have one... well, not only do they not give a damn about you – they’re probably likely to relish the prospect of you falling on your face and making a complete idiot of yourself – there’s nothing better to chat about at the water cooler...

My point this morning is that you need to be careful who you tell what you wish for – a twist on the old expression but an important one nevertheless. Your own mind, in its default state, tends towards the negative (that’s why it’s so important to exercise mentally every day) so, if you’re being niggled by normal negative people, you’re going to start doubting yourself, your goals and your ambitions. God knows it’s hard enough to keep ourselves mentally focused without having to listen to people who don’t want you to succeed.

Stack the cards in your favour. Don’t let outsiders into your personal secrets as regards effortless success – unfortunately, some of those outsiders may be very close at hand but I’m not a relationship counsellor. The best form of self-defence is to ensure that you don’t expose yourself in the first place.

This Week's Recommended Read - The Power of Kabbalah

Personal Development Article

by Yehuda Berg ISBN 0-340-82668-1

Ancient wisdom from the occult Judaic tradition of the Cabal – insights on spirituality, life and even the universe. Don’t let Madonna’s testimonial put you off! - Willie Horton

The Publisher says: Imagine your life filled with an unending joy, purpose and contentment. Imagine your days infused with pure insight and energy. This is the power of Kabbalah. It is the path from momentary pleasure that most of us settle for to the lasting fulfilment that is yours to claim. Your deepest desires are waiting to be realised. But they are not limited to the temporary rush from closing a business deal, the short-term high of drugs, or a passionate sexual relationship that lasts only a few short months. The wonder and wisdom of Kabbalah has influenced the world’s leading spiritual, philosophical, religious and scientific minds. Until today, however, it has been hidden away in ancient texts, available only to scholars who knew where to look. Now, after many centuries, The Power of Kabbalah resides right here in this one remarkable book. Here, at long last, is the complete and simple path – actions that you can take right now to create the life you desire and deserve.

first published January 26th 2009

Are You a Leader (or are you a loser)?

by Willie Horton

What's the difference between a "leader" and a "manager"? The answer - "leaders" have more presence than normal people. Anyone can rise through the ranks to become a "manager" or a "CEO" - but only some of us are born leaders! Wrong! We all have the innate ability to lead - because, in fact, we were all born leaders in the first place. We all had "presence" as little children - we need to re-learn what comes naturally and change our lives.

Read the full article on real leadership...

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