Willie Horton's Personal and Leadership Development Ezine
Issue No: 432 - February 10, 2015
WHAT'S IT LIKE TO BE IN FLOW?
ONE KEY THING
Choose just one key thing that you really want to get done today. Decide when you're going to do it. Consider what it will feel like when you have it done - the sense of satisfaction and achievement (or just a weight off your shoulders!). When the appointed time arrives and turn off your email and turn off your 'phone (unless you specifically need them for the task!). Immerse yourself in what you're doing - notice what it feels like (fingers on keyboard, paintbrush in hand, the texture of the fabric of the chair in which you're sitting facing the other person, whatever...). Engross yourself in just doing, one movement, one breath at a time, what you're doing - get into the flow.
HITTING FLOW WHENEVER YOU CHOOSE
Purposeful focus, developed through the regular practice of meditation and maintained through the regular checking-in to reality throughout the day, enables us do just what we need to do to achieve our objective for now. Really, that is all you need to know.
In reality, therefore, there are only certain, discrete, things that you need to do. I say "discrete" because life is lived in discrete segments - they're called moments or nows. The first thing you need to do is meditate - regularly. I'm often amused - or bemused - by the extent to which people tell me that they "fall back on the meditation" when they "need it"... like praying when things go wrong or when you find yourself in a fix, people seem to think that meditation will steady them - but only when they need it. We need it all the time because, unknownst to us (because we're not very good at paying attention) our subconscious mind (the part of our mind that dictates our automated behaviour and, thus, creates our pale reflection of reality) is prone to drift into the past and, because it's subconscious, we don't notice... at least we don't until it dawns upon us that we've wasted the last hour (or, worse, the whole day!), have shirked some responsibility or avoided doing something important. We need meditation every day - that's Number One.
We also need to regularly check-in with ourselves during the day to find out how far we've mentally drifted from our purpose and the reality of the moment. Reality is all around us all of the time - a few deep breaths will get you in touch with it. But, we also need to keep ourselves on task - hence this morning's Quick Tip.
Almost everyone I know has hit this wonderful mental state of Flow at some point in their lives. Often, it happens by accident or, as suggested by today's video, in the heat of an impending deadline. Wouldn't it be wonderful if you could choose to hit Flow at will? That is what purposeful focus will enable you do... again and again until it becomes a way of life.
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS
Tuesday February 24th, 2015 - Dublin
A full-day Workshop - seven hours - in which you will learn whats wrong with the ordinary mind, what we can do about it and what you can do with your life once you're in control of your own state of mind...
Flow is not a feeling of happiness for the sake of a feeling of happiness - what good would that be on a practical day-to-day basis? Flow is about being "in the zone" because you're doing something, doing it well, completely immersed in doing it and getting satisfaction from the experience. It is not something that you can force upon yourself - nor do you choose to be in flow.
Flow happens - your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to do the few, small but necessary things (that we're talking about in today's Ezine) to let Flow simply and effortlessly happen. In that way, you choose to cultivate all the right things (state of mind, purpose, objective) - get all your ducks in a row - and then let Flow happen by fully doing what you're doing (assuming what you're doing is the right thing to be doing right now).
Flow has been defined by the University of Chicago - we're exlporing its components and attributes over the next few weeks - including today - not because we can mechanically bring about Flow but because, if we know all its working bits, we can take the small, few necessary steps to enable ourselves simply be up for it... and then see what happens - effortlessly.